I am at sea in a world of uncertainty.
Sonny went to his first day of the spring semester. I many times before tried to talk to him about, how much of a chance he has to transfer into Berkeley University. Finally, today he opened up and admitted that:
1. He might not have enough credits to transfer and,
2. He is not sure if he wants to go to Berkeley U.
Well, this he told me and his dad a few times. I hope, that Taka will see reason and deal well with Sonny going to another place of higher learning. Still, until everything is in the open and decided upon, I have an uncomfortable feeling of anxiety eating at my soul.
Should I apply the things that I learned from Mr. P. and Al Anon to this situation? I can't change these circumstances, but I can choose how I react to them. I also should give up trying to manage everything in my children's lives. They are adults, they want to be treated like adults, so they need to make their own choices and deal with consequences!
Simple solution? I think - not!